Smile-Therapy Think Tank

Quote #475, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-06-29T08:53:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #475...

"Talent is God-given: be humble.
Fame is man-given: be thankful.
Conceit is self-given: be careful."
-Tony Dungy's high school coach-

Quite a bit said here in this brief poem. It was ascribed to the teachings of Coach John Wooden who we hold the deepest respect for. When we see Wooden we immediately think CHARACTER, HONESTY, ETHICS.

When ponderig this short three sentence gem, it becomes pretty prophetic. Where does talent come from and why does one person have talent A and another person gets skills B and C?

And where does fame come from? The fans cheering and chanting and slobbering all over for some good reasons and some not so wonderful consequences.

And conceit... well where does that come from?
That for all to ponder and digest.

Great stuff from Dungy, or his coach, or from Wooden. Whomever it was, thanks for enlightening the rest of us!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #474, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-06-22T09:30:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #474...
"The reason several dollar bills wear out so quickly is that so many are always passing the buck."
-Croft Pentz-

A little play on words from Mr Pentz.
Makes one wonder, in his sarcasm, how much truth actually lies there?

How much responsibility do people actually take on? What type of blame are they always looking to cast upon others?

This discussion could go on for hours, as it's a wonderful conversation piece. A conversation piece that could use some chatter, and then a little bit of action to address the talking point.
HMM...

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #473, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-06-21T11:29:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote # 473...

"The greatest homage we can pay to the truth... is to use it."
-Emerson-

Saw this this morning. Loved it. Not much more to add.
It kind if stops you in your tracks and say quite a heap load.

Funny how we all WANT the truth, yet a good portion of us aren't willing to use it, to share it, to give it up, to forward it on though.

Funny though isn't it? Not really.

Use the truth. I'll go first. Everyone follow in suit. Perhaps we can start a valuable trend?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #472, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-06-05T14:24:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #472...

"Ever notice that a cars windshield is so large and the rear view mirror is so small? That's because our past is not as important as our future. So, look ahead and move on."
-a Layman's Ten Commandments-

Sometimes a statement is so succintly put, that there isn't much more to add to it. Thus is the case here.

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #471, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-06-03T16:23:00.003-04:00

Here Goes Blog Quote #471...
"Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open."
-Elmer G Leterman-

The 'other' Leterman shares this gem with us. Boy it happens every day in sales doesn't it? People will buy anything from someone once. After that-- it's all earned.

Another saying says 'people will deal with people that they like, know and trust.'
After the first sale, it is then that we find out more about the product itself, AND the person who sold it.

Is it a 'one and done' sale or is it a relationship building exercise? Did we buy from a slick oil salesman who only initially seemed all too nice and friendly, or is it from a caring person of character who truly has our best interest at heart?

It is true that a personality can open doors and relationships. But without some substance behind it, it's likely to be a short term deal.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #470, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-05-22T11:24:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #470...

"I have learned the hard way that every time I get angry, I am going to learn something new--usually about my limited vision."
-Adele Ryan McDowell-

Wow. This is one of those surprise endings at the completion of the quote. Wasn't expecting that. However, quite humbling, and how insightful.

Any of you relate with this discovery? I know I certainly can.

Much anger in the world, could be avoided, is senseless, and sometimes selfish. If we work towards understanding where one another is coming from, versus our own selfish and limited views and ideas--watch out. A whole new world opens up. And it's a good new world!

Hats off to Ms. Mc Dowell for that self discovery. It's a keeper!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #469, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-05-19T12:05:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #469...

"Sometimes the thinking about it is harder than the doing it."
-Mama Brainard-

What a great quote that a friend of mine shared, regarding some wisdom that was passed on from his mom to himself.

The more I think of this quote the better it gets. Inertia. Moving on something. Getting started. Sometimes it can be thee most difficult thing.

We over think stuff. We analyze it from twelve different angles. We ask advice from every Tom, Dick, and Harry that we can get their attention.

When whats really needed... is just a kick in the pants to get started. So all you procrastinators out there-- the next time you are stuck overthinking.. just jump in the water and get going. You'll find that its actually much easier than being stuck up top on that high diveboard...pondering.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #468, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-05-17T12:05:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #468...

"If you are having a challenge on a business level, do not look at how to change others, or even how to change the situation. Look at a way to change yourself."
-Lydia Danner-

Why is it that we are so good at telling others how to change. or what they need to do, to get better? Yet, it's so hard for ourselves to change anything.

There is an old saying... "If you can't change your friends, then change your friends." Sometimes that's true and needed advice. Other times, we need to stop looking around at everyone else and start the changing on our own front porch. The fact is: That's the spot where we have much more control, and significantly more impact as well.
Something to consider...

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #467, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-05-16T08:55:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #467...

"What is a calorie? Calories are the little devils that get into your wardrobe at night, and sew your clothes tighter."
- Shared by friend Joy Gillis-

You have any of those little bugger devils in your closets? Yeah me too. Thought this was a humorous way to get this Monday Party started!

Enjoy your day. And while your at it, make it a heck of a good week!
Keep moving so you can fend off those pesky calories!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #466, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-05-11T13:00:00.003-04:00

Hello ST Think-Tankers. We were having some technical difficulties, but have gotten them resolved, so we are back.

Here goes Blog Quote #466...
"When you are aspiring to the highest place, it is honorable to reach the second, or even the third rank."
-Cicero BC 55-

Can you believe this was stated over 2000 years ago? Kind of reminds me of the quote to shoot for the sky.. as you know, the sky is the limit. If you miss, you may hit the stars. In other words, when you raise your expectations, your results almost ALWAYS follow higher up the ladder.

How about Cicero's choice of words? Second or third is HONORABLE. In today's world when so much emphasis is placed on WINNING, it's refreshing to hear that not only coming close is good, but honorable. Hey, no matter what your trying to accomplish, just sheer numbers wise- its brutally tough to be number 1 let alone all the time. Consider the Boston marathon- with tens of thousands of participants. Only one winner.

As Coach Wooden says, "You're a winner if you give it your all. If you try your hardest and give it your personal best."
Wooden and Cicero. Two pretty smart men!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #465, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-04-14T14:24:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #465... "If profanity had an influence on the flight of the ball, the game of golf would be played far better than it is." -Horace G Hutchinson- This for any of you raving golf fans out there. I must tend to agree that this quote is dead on... although I have never used any profanity myself. Just profound stuff. If you believe that one, I also have a round where I birdied all 18 holes. Not! It's a tough game and can test the patience of even the best, mild mannered souls. Don't forget--- even the Reverand lost his cool while having the best round of his life, in the hit movie Caddyshack. Rat farts!! That's my view...what say you?

Quote #464, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-04-06T11:21:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #464.. "A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that---is the beginning of a new argument." -unknown- Found this comical. Anyone agree with this? Perhaps the best strategy is to avoid an argument at any cost? I always thought argument was a 'harsh' word anyway. I prefer the word--discussion! That's my view...what say you?

Quotes #462 and 463, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-03-28T13:03:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quotes #462 and #463... "I can prove anything by statistics, except the truth." -George Canning, British politician- I found this humerous. The point is to be careful. Stats are good. With that stated, they can be stretched like a slingshot, twisted like a pretzel, and manipulated like a rookie frat boy. Observe with care. See if the author is pushing an angle. Pay attention. And you know what they say... the average human has one breast and one testicle. Quote #463... Statistics are like bikinis. What they reveal is suggestive, but what they conceal is vital." -Aaron Levenstein- HMMM That's my view...what say you?

Quote #461, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-03-23T15:07:00.003-04:00

Here goes blog quote #461...

"The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field, and never score."
-Bill Copeland-

Can anyone relate? The chicken running around with it's head cut off feeling?
This reminds me of the analogy of Progress and Activity. Just because you are busy doesn't mean you are productive, or actually getting anything done.

The purpose of a goal, like a goal line, is to set a mark and see if you actually 'cross the mark.' Get to the goal--- if you will.

Many people don't take the time to set goals. Those are usually the same people that are going through life, and not getting much traction. Those are the folks that are likely starring in the movies of other director's lives. In other words--- they are parts to someone else's goals and plans.

Goals are good. If you don't currently set them, perhaps it's a decent thing to consider? They just might help you get to one side or the other of that field called life, and score a few more times.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #460, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-03-04T09:04:00.003-05:00

Here Goes Blog Quote #460...

"I'm not interested in how you got to the wrong answer."
-Jack Williams-

The other day a good friend of mine and I were chatting and he gave me that line. We both cracked up at it. The rudeness. The arrogance. Of course, it's just a kidding line. Nonetheless, a classic.

It happened to be a line that he heard many a time from his dad while growing up. We then went off into 'Memory Lane' thinking up and re-hashing classic one liners from our elders.

Each of us has heard them from our parents. We will probably be repeating those same lines on to our kids and grandkids. Heck, one time our family roasted our dad for his 70th birthday---and guess what the platfiorm was? The "Ism's" of our father.

Long live the one liner classics from our parents!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #459, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-03-03T18:57:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #459...

"A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they are not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they are not so bad."
-Arnold Glasgow-

That, my friends, is truer that one might think.

Key word in this quote--- LOYAL.
Re-read as needed. Share with others. Perhaps a nice little subliminal message will get passed around.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #458, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-03-01T09:21:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #458...

"If you don't know where you are going, you might end up somewhere else."
-Toby Keith-

Driving down the road the other day, I heard this song come over the radio waves. I had to do a double take as to the meaning of the statement.

After further pondering, it was determined to be one of those tricky statements that go round and round. Can always expect something fun and unique from country music.

Silly, yes.
Makes you think, absolutely.
Some truth to it--- I believe so.

Moral of the story... it's not a bad idea to determine where you want to go, otherwise you'll surely end up somewhere else. I think??

Might lead to the question--- How does someone know where 'somewhere else' is, if they don't know where they are 'going?' HMMM...
Nice piece of writing by Mr Keith and his crew!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #457, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-02-23T11:09:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #457...

"When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me.."look for the helpers." You will always find people who are helping."
-Fred Rogers-

What a way to turn a negative into a positive. You know what?... Fred's mom is correct. Kind of like there is good in every evil; you just have to look for it.

No wonder why Mr. Rogers turned out to be such a great guy and an American icon...

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #456, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-02-10T11:05:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog quote #456...

"Procrastination is the best way to BURY your potential."
-Celes Chua-

Not certain I agree its the BEST way, but there is a good case made that it's certainly a Top 10- er.

I like the wording of "burying your potential." Makes you want to get out there and DO SOMETHING about it!

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #455, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-02-08T12:10:00.004-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #455...
"Do what you do so well, that they will want to see it again, AND bring their friends."
-Walt Disney-

This was Disney's philosophy, and part of his business model for success.
Seems overly simplistic, doesn't it?
Remember--- common sense isn't always so common.

Many companies are out there doing all sorts of crazy branding and advertising and gimmicking and paying celebrities to promote their product. Some are trying to re-invent the wheel constantly. Others are trying to woo customers with the 'latest and greatest.'

To me, Disney's approach seems like a recipe for greatness. How about you?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #454, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-02-01T17:07:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #454...

"There are many things in life that will catch our eye. Only a few will catch our heart. Pursue those.
-Jeremy Taylor-

How good is this quote?
I believe Mr Taylor is suggesting we all follow our hearts and if we are PASSIONATE about something---get after it. Now!

To the point. With power.
Bravo Mr Taylor, bravo!

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #453, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-01-24T12:47:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog quote #453...

"Swallow your pride occasionally. It's not fattening."
-Frank Tyger-

Frank is the man of superb quotes that say quite a bit, in a small amount of space.

The explanation for this comment is not required. Another reason why its such a good quote.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #452, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-01-14T10:32:00.002-05:00

Heres Blog Quote #452...

"The budget should be balanced, the Treasury should be refilled, public debt should be reduced, the arrogance of officialdom should be tempered and controlled, and the assistance to foreign lands should be curtailed---lest Rome become bankrupt. People must again learn to work, instead of living on public assistance."
-Cicero, 55 BC-

As my friend Helen D says.. so what have we really learned in over 2000 years?
Perhaps not nearly as much as Cicero would have liked us to learn.

HMMM...
What do you think?

That's my view..what say you?

Quote #451, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-01-07T12:50:00.003-05:00

Here's Blog Quote #451...

"Be not careless in deeds, nor confused in words, nor rambling in thought."
-Marcus Aurelius-

From this great Roman emperor and philosopher, I believe Aurelius is trying to tell us...get to the point. Be honest, be truthful, and say what you mean to say.

I am reading a world famous early 1900's book, called 'As a Man Thinketh', by James Allen. Very short book. There are no wasted words. Each comment has in depth meaning.

In keeping with Aurelius and Allen's comments:::. Buy the book. Excellent wisdom. You will learn much about positive thinking---AND---the secret to succeeding.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #450, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2011-01-03T14:40:00.003-05:00

Here's Blog quote #450...

"Necessity is the mother of invention."
-Plato, famous Greek philosopher-

Amazing--- this from Plato, who walked the earth 2300 years before you and I.

Funny how when you have to have something(note: not WANT, but NEED), you are forced to figure out a solution or HOW to make it happen/work. We truly have so much more in the reserve tank when we need to call on it.

Someone once said we only use about 8% of our brain's capacity. I have no idea how to verify that, but I do know that WHEN NEEDED, we can do PLENTY more than what is originally thought.

That's my view...what say you?

2011-01-01T12:11:00.003-05:00

Here's blog quote #449...

"They say I'm old fashioned and live in the past, but sometimes progress--- progresses to fast!"
-Dr Seuss-

Ever think the world is moving too fast?
Faxes were great when first invented, then became not good enough. Then we had to have overnight delivery... then incredibly--that was too slow. Poof.. along comes same day delivery.

Emails are mind blowing when you stop to think how they operate. We can talk across the planet... for free... almost instantaneously. Somehow the message goes from our keyboard, over cyber space, and appears immediately in someone's inbox 10,000 miles away.

All of the sudden---emails aren't quick enough. If people don't get back to you with in 5-10 minutes, they are 'slacking.' Now texting requires prompto attention, and response.

As the wise man Gandhi once said... "There is more to life than increasing it's speed."

Perhaps we should PAUSE--- and ponder that one--- a bit more?
HMMM

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #448, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-12-31T13:06:00.003-05:00

Here's Blog Quote #448...

"The only one who can tell you 'you can't'--- is you.
And you don't have to listen."
-Nike-

How's that for inspiration to finish off the fantastic year that 2010 has been?

For 2011..
Just Do it--- Nike
Get Er Dun---Larry the Cable Guy
Wirite your songs to make the whole world sing---Barry Manilow
Make it happen---Mariah Carey
Your off to great places. Today is your day.Your mountain is waiting--- so get on your way---Dr Seuss
Your on your own and you know what you know...and YOU are the one who'll DECIDE where to go---Dr Seuss

May you have health in 2011, and all your dreams and desires come to fruition!
That's my view...what say you?

Quote #447, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-12-30T09:04:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #447...

"The time to relax, is when you don't have time for it."
-Anonymous-

What does this mean? Isn't it redundant or rhetorical?
Trick question?

Maybe the world and ourselves are just going too darn fast? And where are we going, by the way? What's the rush? Are our priorities in check? Is there really ANY reason why we are going so fast, that we are missing "life?"

On this second to last day of the year 2010... not a bad time to be asking this question. Perhaps a better "pace of life" in the next year may be something to add to the NY Resoultion list?

Your feedback certainly welcome here...

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #446, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-12-27T11:49:00.002-05:00

Here's Blog Quote #446...

"Believe in what you do. Because, you may have to do it for a long time, before it catches on.
-Seth Godin-

For those of you unfamiliar with Mr Godin, he is a marketing guru/genius. I'm not certain who coined the phrase 'out of the box thinking,' but whenever I hear it, I think of Seth Godin.

The brilliance of this quote is that it is so SIMPLISTIC. Yet, it is SO TRUE.

How many people have a good concept or superb idea and, have the guts to go for it and come charging out of the gate, like a quarterhorse? First, lets note: good for them to GO FOR IT. There are many a worthy idea, thought up in the shower, that sadly, never leave the bathroom.

What these quarterhorses forgot or misjudged, is that it's a mile long race. This might be a shocker.. but not everyone else, at least initially, is as excited about your idea as you are.

That doesn't mean it's not going to be a great success. As Godin suggests---it just might take a long time. Give it some perseverance, some nurturing, and plenty of attention. Share it with as many as you can, until you get to where you want to be. That is normally the difference between making it a success and just another idea that didn't get enough time to germinate.

To borrow from the great Napoleon Hill.... Concieve, believe, and achieve , and(I add) you will not BEREAVE!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #445, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-12-07T11:16:00.004-05:00

Here goes Quote #445...

"Don t let yesterday take up too much of today."
-Coach John Wooden-

Could have, should have, and would have's.

Why did that happen?
How come I did it that way, versus doing it this way?
What if...?

A subtle reminder from the Coach of all coaches to leave yesterday where it belongs... yesterday.
Live in the present. Yesterday is "in the books." It's not changing. It's not coming back.

Turn your attention to today... where you can still do something about, where you can still make a difference.

Not that it's a bad thing to relive and remember. Just don't spend a ton of time on it... as you have some LIVING to do. TODAY. Now, get at it.

That's my view... What say you?

Quote #444, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-26T12:06:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #444...

"If you are not using your smile,you are like a person with a million dollars in the bank and no checkbook."
-Les Giblin-

Since my Mom's favorite number was 4, and this is quote # 444, thought this was appropriate. My mom was very pleasant, and generous with her smile.

This quote has some excellent meaning to it the more you think about it. We all are rich with smiles. Smiles that have TREMENDOUS power.
>> Smiles that can turn around a persons day.
>>Open up a conversation.
>>Welcome a stranger.
>> Comfort a nervous or shy person.

Let's all use our Smiles and give them out more. Share like you've never shared before. Heck, they don't even cost anything!

You may be surprised what you get in return. Some good feelings. Warmth. Even a few surprising smiles back at you. It's all good!!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #443, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-22T12:17:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #443...

"I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes, this makes planning my day difficult."
-E.B.White-

Now that is one heck of a daily mission statement. That is living life, my friends!
I think changing the world (for the better) is a great daily goal. I also like the idea of having a boatload of FUN, while doing it.

The more I read this quote(daily missive), the more I love it.
In fact, I'm going to google this EB White, and find out more about him/her. Sounds like fun to me!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #442, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-18T10:38:00.002-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #442...

"Just make all the friends you can. You'll never know how badly you need them---until you do."
-Cy Frailey, 1947-

Taken from Cy's wonderful book "This Way Up."

Cy is discussing in his book, how important it is, to treat others nice and make connections and keep away from burning bridges. Sometimes having 2-3 true, solid friends is worth more than a pot of gold.

Friends, like gold, do not come easy. And when you do find a good one, it also takes work and effort to keep them.

Ask around and you'll find many a people saying how they used to have this great buddy, or they lost touch, or so in so kind of fell out of their life. It happens...if you let it.

Do what you can to be as nice and kind to people as you'd like to be treated. It feels good, it's courteous, and the best part... it may open up a whole new avenue of potential lifelong friends that may not otherwise surface.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #441, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-17T09:39:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog Quote #441...

"One of the marks of superior people is that they are action oriented. One of the marks of average people is that they are talk oriented."
-Brian Tracy-

Which begs this simple question...

Talk or Action. Which are you?

Quote #440, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-14T09:32:00.003-05:00

Here goes blog Quote #440..

"There are two reasons for drinking wine. When you are thirsty, to cure it. The other, when you are not thirsty, to prevent it...prevention is better than cure."
-Thomas Love Peacock-

This, for all the wine lovers of the universe.

I like the humor. I also enjoy the logic behind the wittiness.

Any medical professional will tell you that it's better to prevent than to start backpeddling and to attempt to cure the issue at hand.

Very sage wisdom here!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #439, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-09T18:13:00.002-05:00

Here goes Blog quote #439...

"A bad habit never disappears miraculously; its an undo it yourself project."
-Ann Landers-

That Dear Abby was one smart cookie.

So true that bad habits do not die easily. It probably took a long time getting into and forming the bad habit. It would make sense that it will take some time and serious effort to eradicate the nasty critter.

It can be done though. Why not start now?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #438, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-07T12:53:00.003-05:00

Here goes Blog quote #438...

"Don't pretend to be what you don't intend to be."
-Croft Pentz-

Does anyone really like a phony?
Stop pretending.

We've all heard "he/she had good intentions." Heck, even singer Lyle Lovett had a song called 'She wasnt good, but she had good intentions.'

How about stopping with the "intentions," and simply DO do what you intend to do.
Life. Let's stop making it so complicated.
Really!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #437, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-06T11:00:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #437...

"We secure our friends not by accepting favors, but by doing them."
-Thucydides-

Thucydides, a famous greek historian and educator, gives us some simple advice to chew on.

Sometimes we make things much more complicated that we have to. HMMM.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #436, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-05T09:43:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #436...

"If you make every game a life and death thing, you are going to have problems. You will be dead a lot."
-Kevin Barry-

Some wise wisdom for all of us to remember.

Have you seen the crazed parents at the 11 year old's baseball game? The ones yelling at their kids, screaming at the coaches, argueing with other parents WHY their kid should be playing more.

Then of course there are the pro and college sports fans. I'm all for some face painting, crazy costumes, cheering on your team, and getting a little fired up. Nonetheless, some fans take it a bit too far, and get in name calling, fights and other silly, rude behavior.

Let's not leave out ourseleves from the discussion. I'm a golf goon. At times, admittedly, I'm a bit harsh on myself, cursing, slapping the head or leg, hitting the shoe and sometimes the foot(ouch) with the golf club.

At the end of the day, we need to remember, IT'S a GAME. Not life and death. Nothing overly serious that's really going to alter the earth's axis or how things play out.

So this quote is a good one to print off and put on the refrigerator, or post it note over the computer screen as a reminder.

We close with another dandy, from the eloquent Elbert Hubbard..
"Don't take life too seriously; you will never get out of it alive."

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #435, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-11-03T08:49:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #435...

"You take people as far as they will go; not as far as you'd like them to go."
-Jeanette Rankin-

Wow, did this stir mixed thoughts!

>> My first thought was its not about YOU; it's about them.
>> Next is people will usually rise to level of expectation you give them
>> Another is that we all can usually go much further past what we originally believe(take olympic athletes for example).
>> A fourth is the ever popular 'lead to water but can't make them drink' theory.
>> A fifth is you can't do the work for the person. All the teaching and coaching in the world surely helps, but in the end, the person has to do" whatever" the task is. YOU cannot do it for them.

Enough of my thoughts on this fun little quote.. how about you?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #434, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-10-31T12:23:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #434...

"When you are ready to learn, a teacher will appear."
-Unknown-

Funny how that works, isn't it?

Well truth be told, it's really not all that coincidental. The teachers are all around you, but are usually being ignored, or just simply not 'tuned into.'

When the student is ready willing and able, more often than not, the teacher will be coming, right around the corner. And what blessings these teachers are.

Three cheers for all teachers out there!
That's my view...what say you?

Quote #433, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-10-18T09:53:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #433...

"Life can change in an instant. Sometimes, it just takes awhile for that instant to arrive."
-Jeanna Gabellini and Eva Gregory-

I love this quote because it says very powerfully; that LIFE can change very quickly. For the good or the bad.

From that, we can take many conclusions or ideas...
~ Appreciate life to its fullest, daily.
~ Live in the moment.
~ The fact that change can occur at any time is something to be cognizant of.

Perhaps the biggest thought that jumped out of my head was the 3 p's...Patience, Persistence and Perseverance. Hang in there, just keep plugging, working hard, doing good things, and when that INSTANT comes when the changing occurs... it should change in your favor, for the better.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #432, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-10-13T10:16:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #432...

"The vision must be followed by the venture. It's not enough to stare up the stairs---we must step up the stairs."
-Vance Havner-

First of all, it's a double shot Wednesday. Sorry for the absence of quotes as of late. A little 'catch up.'

I loved the same word, different spelling, mixed into this quote(stare/stair). It's creative, yet the message is crystal clear.

When they are producing a movie they don't say lights, camera, then nothing. We need ACTION.

If you want to get something done then DO IT. Yes it's true that most things if not all are thought up in the mind first, then put into action. So thoughts ARE required. Then, you have to complete the thought with some direct follow up. Get into motion, and get at whatever your trying to get at.

Now.. skedaddle and get up those stairs!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #431, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-10-13T10:11:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #431...

"Mosquitos remind us that we are not as high up on the food chain as we think."
-Tom Wilson-

Is there anything better than a humbling comment that causes us to stop and think? Well maybe. How about a humbling 'head scratcher' with some humor added to it?

Kudo's to Mr. Wilson for his insight here.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #430, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-29T13:16:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #430...

"When nothing is sure, everything is possible."
-Margaret Drabble, English Novelist-

What really IS sure? Who knows?

When someone says it will rain today, how do THEY know, for 100% sure? If someone tells you, you'll never make the baseball team, what makes them the final answer? An expert tells a young chemist student 'don't bother trying to become a scientist, no chance!' Again, do they hold a crystal ball?

Most of what people say are their opinions. Nothing more, nothing less. For who does really know WHAT'S to transpire in the next 24 hours, next week, the coming 7 years? No one really, is the answer, except the higher powers of the world.

Which leads us back to Ms. Drabble's quote... "When nothing is sure, EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE."

I find that quote quite exciting. Rather exhilirating. How about you?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #429, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-24T13:55:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #429...

"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser men are so full of doubts."
-Bertrand Russell-

This is an interesting quote that seems to have some degree of truth to it.

I'm curious as to what you Think Tank readers have to say about this comment. Do you agree and, if so, WHY IS THAT true of this quote?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #428, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-18T08:56:00.003-04:00

Here goes blog quote #428...

"We are in good shape for the shape we are in."
-My Aunt Norma -

Once again we here at the Think Tank love the play on words, the quotes that look the same front and backwards. The ones that seem to say identical things but at the same time, say two totally different points.

My Aunt Norma is one of the toughest, most positive people, that works with what she has to work with. You know...the type that plays the cards she has been dealt, as best she can, regardless if its ten and under.

Life is all about HOW we CHOOSE to look at things. Put 10 people in a room with the same exact circumstances and you'd have a mixed bag of reactions. Some would complain, some would feel cheated, some would just deal with it, some would make the best of it, and some would actually feel blessed. It's all about CHOICE of MIND.

When Norma is saying 'we are in good shape, for the shape we are in,' it tells me that she has some issues to contend with( like all of us), but she will attack them with THEE most positive of attitudes. Even to the point of giving thanks to have the chance to deal with the issues. CHOICE of MIND. It's a wonderful thing.

Thanks for the life lesson Aunt Norma; it's a good one!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #427, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-13T09:26:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #427...

"Dialogue takes time. Everything else takes longer."
-anonymous-

Did you ever notice how things always take longer than you expect? Especially in business. Perhaps that's why the patient and the persevering people do well in life.

I believe things take time because all of us have plenty going on in our lives. And when we are ready to act, most likely the other person is not absolutely ready at the same time we are. They don't know as much as we know. They need time to do some homework. They have 12 other things going on. Quite frankly, our priority may not be theirs (in fact likely that it's not).

Thus as the quote above says, talking and conversing takes time. To get to the point where there is action, takes even longer. Be patient. Stay the course. And, allow for some time for people to get to where you are already at. If it's good for all.. it will happen. Maybe not the second you want it to happen, but it will get there.

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #426, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-09T13:00:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #426...

"When you blame others, you give up your power to change."
-Helen Diehl-

Wow! That one stopped me in my tracks today. I'll leave you a few moments to ponder that one.

As always, comment if you like...

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #425, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-05T09:15:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #425...

Todays Quote is actually a sign seen in a bar, somewhere in Pennsylvania

Attention VIP's

If you appear to be a VISUALLY INTOXICATED PERSON, we cannot serve you.
It's the Law!

Thought this was a great sign, as it carries several messages...

First was the creativity of the bar for posting the sign, getting a statement to it's customers in a humorous, yet fair way.

Second, the bar can be liable if they overserve you... we as patrons sometimes forget that.
Finally, some elite people,(those who may think they are VVIP very, very important people) are not excluded from this rule .

Hats off to this bar and to creativity in any shape, form, or kind. We all could use a bit more of it.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #424, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-09-01T13:21:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #424...

"The brave does not live forever, but the cautious does not live at all."
-unknown-

Sometimes the brief quotes pack the most power. I believe the message here is...

Live a little.
Go for it.
Get after life! It goes by pretty fast.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #423, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-24T13:45:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #423...

"The doors of opportunity are marked "PUSH" and "PULL."
-Seen on some motivational paper -

There are many doors out there. There are many opportunities out there. Looking at them will not do much for you. Thinking about them will not do much for you. Talking about them will not do much for you.

You have to go in, and come out. You have to jump in, and get out. You have to get into action, and stop pondering.

PULL. PUSH. Get started. That's how opportunities are taken advantage of. Get after them. Have a ball. Go for it.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #422, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-18T09:10:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #422...

Have more than thou showest, speak less than thou knowest."
-William Shakespeare-

Admittedly, I've always had a tough time with Shakespeare. Apparently my mind is extremely simple.

This quote, I loved. I believe when he quoted this he was talking about posessions and finances. However, it could be taken in context for many things of life.

Braggers, loud mouths and show-offs are usually quite unpopular. On the other hand, humility and humbleness seem to be qualities that are looked upon favorably by most.

I guess it sort of falls into the under promise and over deliver category? Like the small ice cream that gets you 2 scoops, or the car mechanic that says it will be about a hundred bucks, and the bill comes in at $87.50.

Three cheers for the humble, the over deliverers, and the people with more in the tank than they boast about!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #421, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-16T13:44:00.004-04:00

Here goes blog quote #421...

"You know it's time to diet when you push away from the table, and the table moves."
-The Cockle Burr, and Yvonne Conte site-

Just some quick humor for today.

Cheers, from the Grand Poobah of Smiles

Quote #420, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-15T09:42:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #420...

Today, another life comment from a wisdomatic soul...

On RELATIONSHIPS:

"Relationships require some serious effort, but they shouldn't be work. If it becomes tiring, its too much work.
-Micki Baumgart-

I thought this comment was very good. With that stated let me clarify my interpretation of what I believe she meant.

I am fully aware that most worthwhile things in life that are achieved, come with much effort/work. What I think Ms. Baumgart was getting at was that relationships should "flow." Not that they will be easy. She clearly states that there will be effort put forth, and much of it. However if the effort becomes extremely taxing, constant, and all the time where it appears to be "forcing the issue" then it may be time to re-examine what's going on.

I totally agree with that in anything in life. In past ST Think Tank blogs, we've mentioned the issue of FORCING things. I believe life should FLOW relatively smooth. With some effort combined, some great things lie ahead. However if it's way too much of a grind... perhaps it's time to take another look.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #419, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-13T12:06:00.002-04:00

Here goes Quote Blog #419..

Today, more of a "life comment" from a good friend of mine's Dad

On INTEGRITY:

"You always can earn more money, but once you compromise your ethics, you lose something far more valuable."
-Larry O'Toole-

Anyone else out there think that we place way to much importance on MONEY?

>Status.
>Greed.
>Power.
>STRESS.

Money is nice to have , but not worship, or be the end all game. There are so many more things in life more important than money. Love, friendship, trust to name a few.

As Mr O'Toole succintly, but properly says... you lose your ethics, and all the money in the world isn't going to help much. You lose your integrity, your word, and REALLY>>> what do you have left? Honestly?

I think, most likely, not much. Not much at all !

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #418, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-10T09:09:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #418...

On turning 90 years old:

"You know your getting old when the candles cost more than the darn cake."
-Bob Hope-

God bless this man. If you never knew of him, he's worth a google. Good, clean humor. Fun entertainment. Did so much for the troops. Was always a joy to watch.

Bob... THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!!!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #417, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-09T17:45:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #417...

"The major value in life is not what you get. The major value in life is what you become."
-Jim Rohn-

Growth.
Stepping outside that comfort zone.
Doing new things.
That's what it's all about baby.

The challenge of doing what you are CAPABLE of doing. It's almost 100% always much,much more than you can ever imagine.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #416, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-07T13:54:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #416...

"To be seventy years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be forty years old."
-Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr-

Age is age. Some will say that it's all in the mind. I tend to agree with this line of thinking.

We all know of people that are 40 going on 71. We also all know people that are 70 going on 39.

As a kid when growing up, we often heard the line "GROW UP. Act your age." I think as we get older that reverses and, as adults and elder adults, we need less seriousness and more play. Have fun. Enjoy yourself.

If your breath fogs a mirror, you are alive. But the real question is... ARE YOU LIVING?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #415, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-08-05T14:41:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #415...

"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people"
-Victor Borge-

They say a smile is universal in all languages. Laughter can probably be thrown in on that as well. Make a joke, make someone laugh, and it opens up the door for some warm, friendly discussions and communication.

Why the heck not. We are all humans. We all do silly stuff. A laugh is positive. It's fun. It's a good emotion. It's a nice feeling.

So.. who can you share a laugh with today? What can you do to brighten another's life in the next 24 hours?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #414, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-29T08:37:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #414...

"What we do speaks so loud, that what we say, other people cannot even hear."
-Kevin Knebl-

As my friend Kevin and I were talking about life yesterday, the subject came up of people following through on what they say. Or lack there of. He then began to recite the above quote, which I thought was brilliant.

We've all heard 'Do as I say, not as I do.' Then there is the old famous "Actions speak louder than words." Lets not forget the classic "Talk is cheap." There are probably 27 other phrases that resonate with the topic here.

We agreed that both of us LISTEN to people, but more importantly, we also WATCH if their deeds match up with, and follow their word. Or, is it just fluff.

I've often told people the best characteristic I own is... my word. If I tell someone I will do something, it will be done. Period. Once you lose your word( ie your credibility), in my opinion, there isn't much left).

Kids are also very in tune with this. They may be listening to you. But don't think for a second thay aren't WATCHING you with every move you make. They are excellent little learners. And they learn from our ACTIONS more than our words.

Any doers, sayers out there?
That's my view... what say you?

Quote #413, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-27T16:40:00.003-04:00

Here's Blog Quote #413...

"I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one heck of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult."
-EB White-

What a fun quote. Anyone else relate? As many of us multitask, this is a comment that should resonate with more than a few of us. I get a kick out of it because it's exactly what I try to do each day.

Help others. Change the world for one, some, or many, in some small way. And let's not forget the part about having a ball doing it. Both are equally important and I wouldn't trade it for the world.
How about you?

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #412, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-22T08:16:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #412...

"If you only care enough for a result, you will most certainly achieve it."
-William James-

How badly do you want it? We ve been asked the question ourselves before. We've seen it asked of athletes and other competitors in various arenas.

The experts say that if you think about it enough, and think more, and keep thinking about it, sooner or later, it will become yours. Most likely the reason is, you become laser focused on whatever you desire... and you'll think of a way HOW TO GET IT.

A word of caution which I'm certain you ve also heard before: Be careful what you wish for...because, well, you know the rest...

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #411, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-21T16:38:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #411...

"You'll see it when you believe it."
-Dr Wayne Dyer-

Wait a minute. Isn't it the other way around? Don't we have to see it before we believe it?

What comes first, the chicken or the egg? HMM. Good quote here.

Perhaps Dyer suggests it's easier to see WHEN you believe...Might this be faith?

Since this is quote #411, I need some 'information' from YOU. You make the call.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #410, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-20T08:09:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #410...

"A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms when his hands are empty."
-Author unknown-

It's not about toys or gifts or treats. It's all about the love baby. L- O- V- E.

Put another way, your presence is much more important than any presents that accompany you. Some good food for thought there.

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #409, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-15T07:44:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #409...

"Why can't somebody give us a list of things that everybody things and nobody says, and another list of things that everybody says and nobody thinks?"
-Oliver Wendell Holmes-

HMM. There is somethig to ponder.

I always thought the world would flow a bit smoother if people really said what they thought. This , of course, in a polite and respectful manner.

So many less guessing games and so much time saved trying to figure out what the other is thinking. Truly thinking.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #408, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-14T17:57:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #408...

"Do just once what others say you cannot do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again."
-James R Cook-

Excellent thought for anyone who has the 'rabbit ears' and are constantly letting others tell them what they can and cannot do. My questions are only two:
Who are they?
Why are we letting them set our limitations?

Never forget that your mind is probably 1000 times more powerful than anything you can think of that exists on this planet.

So... re think WHO, you are letting, set your limitations.

As Nike says, just do it. Go and do what your set to do and watch the others comment, in amazement, after the fact.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #407, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-10T07:57:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #407...

"Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records."
-William Arthur Ward-

How true is this? When the going gets tough..the tough get going. Well, some do and some don't.

Often we find out what we are truly made of... when difficulties arise. It's easy being a good sport when things are going your way. When the wind is at your back. When your coasting downhill.

When you really find out what's inside... is usually when there is some adversity thrown on your plate.

We often don't have a clue just how good we can be. What amazing things we can accomplish. Until we get tested. So...next time some adversity comes your way, embrace it and give it all you have to give. You just may be pleasently surprised at the results?

What is YOUR TAKE on this quote and commentary?

Quote #406, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-09T08:26:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #406...

"Those who never retract their opinions love themselves more than they love the truth."
-Joseph Joubert-

There is a morsel of wisdom for you to chew on this weekend. Remember opinions are just that...something you think.

Your feedback on this quote?

Quote #405, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-08T07:34:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #405...

"He who is good at making excuses is seldom good at anything else."
-Ben Franklin-

This way he needs the excuses.
Which raises the question.. which comes first? Does laziness come first, thus NEEDING the excuse?

Or, is the person that's not good at anything, thus his best answer or 'defense' is an excuse or a reason WHY he isn't good? My bet is in the former with laziness first and the ability to fall back on the crutch of an excuse.

What do you think?
How did you read this quote?

Quote #404, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-06T10:49:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #404...

"The one, absolute unselfish friend, that man can have in this selfish world, the one that never deserts him,the one that never proves ungrateful or treacherous, is his dog."
-Sen. George Graham Vest-

Anyone who has owned a dog totally 'gets' this comment. If you haven't owned a dog, you might understand it somewhat, but not fully, or not at all.

I could go on for 4 pages on the advantages of a dog. I could write about what an absolutely incredible, fantastic, amazing, wonderful, spactacular, superb specimen this creature is....

But for those who choose to, you'll find out some day. For those that have chosen a dog in their life, they already know. And for those who choose not to, my only condolence is that you'll never know what you are missing out on. One of life's absolute BEST treats.. is the DOG. Check out what it spells backwards...hmmm

That's my opinion...
Do you care to chime in here?

Quote #403, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-05T15:11:00.005-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #403...

"Life expectancy would grow by leaps and bounds if green vegetables smelled as good as bacon."
-Doug Larson-

Quick shout out to my friend Helen D who has her enjoyable blog "Picture of the Day." She has some awesome quotes that I borrow from time to time. Thanks HD

Back to Larson's quote... How funny this is. How true this is.

If the REALLY HEALTHY stuff smelled THAT good... wouldn't it be like cheating though? It's almost like making Pepto Bismal taste like a strawberry milkshake. Whats wrong with that picture?

In all fairness, some of the fruits and vegetables are pretty tasty. Some of them. And while they can't hold a candle to an orange Hostess cupcake or a Fluffernutter, some taste pretty refreshing

Come to think of it...Apple pie ala mode is somewhat delicious. Does that count? Apples... oh well, I tried :)

Thats my view... what say you?

Quote #402, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-07-02T11:43:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #402...

"Ideas won't keep. Something must be done about them."
-Alfred Whitefield-

Timing is everything. I was having dinner with a friend and business associate, and he was sharing this idea he had with me. He was very excited about this idea. Was VERY confident that he was onto something B I G.

After all that, he then tells me how he's not ready for it yet. Perhaps not enough time to put into it. Maybe money might be an issue. He even thought he had two smaller, and less fired up ideas to do... before getting to his passionate one.

I say... Hogwash! Fiddlesticks! If that's what your psyched about, then get to it gosh darn it! You'll figure out the "how to finance it", the "where the time will come from" and all the rest of the obstacles you'll face.

Besides, if you wait, someone else might discover your 'idea' and bring it out first. Or you'll grow less excited about it. Or, conditions might change health wise or monetary wise or 44 other distractions could occur.

I say... follow your passion. The world awaits your awesome IDEA. Bring it on.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #401, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-29T08:56:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #401...

"The more I study the world, the more I am convinced of the inability of brute force to create anything durable."
-Napoleon I-

Note the last word... DURABLE. Can brute force make things happen? Of course. We see it every day in war, in dictatorships, in relationships, in parenting, at the workplace.

Things do happen out of force. But don't think for a second that there aren't ill feelings or anger or resentment that go right along with the required activity. And the minute there is a chance for bailout, reversal or escape, theres a good probability it will happen.

Force is usually a bad thing. Anytime someone is made to do somethig against their will, there might well be some consequences later on. A little kindness and understanding of the others views and some warmth may go a much longer way in relations with others.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #400, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-28T08:06:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #400...

"A retentive memory may be a good thing, but the ability to forget is the true token of greatness."
-Elbert Hubbard-

Hubbard was an American writer back in the late 1800's early 1900's. While I have never read any of his writings, I have seen many a quote from this man, and each one has been thoughtful and wise.

The quote on the ability to forget is a winner. It might deal with the power of forgiveness. It could be remembering the good times and letting go of past bad occurrences. It could even be a retaining of the positive and and a blocking out of the negative. However you take this quote, it has substantial substance. While a good memory has power, use, and value, the ability to forget is a priceless quality to strive for and attain

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #399, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-25T11:31:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #399...

"When it comes to getting things done, we need fewer architects and more bricklayers."
-Colleen C Barret-

This follows the line of less talking, more producing. Less yappin' and more action.

We have enough people telling us how to do things. What we need is more people jumping in to help and get to work, so more things actually get completed.

This could also relate to the complainers and booers and naysayers telling and talking about why things aren't getting done or what's wrong. Again,
less of the explanation and more of the action to get in and fix the problem!

Well stated, Ms Barret!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #398, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-22T10:06:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #398...

"There is no ceiling on honesty."
-Janet Brighton-

This quote from the lovely Ms Brighton really got my attention. We were having a conversation via the world wide web/internet, and I told her that my handshake meant everything. Without that I have nothing. My words mean zippo. Zilch. Squat. My integrity... gone.

She agreed. Then she comes back at me with this quote which is saying similar stuff, yet in a whole new way. I took 'having no ceiling' to mean that you always have to be honest, regardless of how little or how much is at stake. Irrespective of who is looking and who isn't. No matter if it costs you some benefit in the short term.

Be HONEST. With yourself. With others. That's a good solid way to live. We want others to be honest with us, don't we? Then shouldn't we try to have 'no ceiling' on honesty ourselves? I love the quote, I've always lived it, and this thought from Brighton is more reinforcement to staying on the honesty train for the future. How about you?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #397, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-15T15:02:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #397...

"It's not your salary that makes you rich, it's your spending habits."
-Charles Jaffe-

I thought this quote makes a lot of cents... errr sense. If you haven't read 'The Millionaire Next Door' (Thomas Stanley/William Danko), it's a great read and I'd suggest it highly.

Therre are many stories of the people who make a decent buck but are too busy lettting others know that they do, via the huge house that's 2000 square foot larger than their actual needs. The brand new expensive car with the close to 4 figure payment on it is another giveaway. Kohl's, K mart , and JC Penney's are off limits to them. You know the type.

The book also talks about the silent type that look like they are just living paycheck to paycheck. Normal 501 Levi's, and the seven year old, but well kept Buick or Ford F 150 is in their driveway. What these people ARE DOING is saving a little on each paycheck. They live comfortable, sleep well, have little to no debt, donate a decent amount to charity, and will have enough money to retire on at some point.

As Jaffe points out, it's not what we make. It's what we do with it. Excellent point!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #396, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-11T14:56:00.003-04:00

Here goes blog quote #396...

"Nobody rises to low expectations."
-Erin Rideout-

Another one that doesn't need a heck of an explanation. If you have very low expectations, there really isn't much to rise to, now is there?

Better idea is to set some higher goals. Bet you a dollar to a dime, that you surprise yourself. And when I say surprise, I'm talking pleasantly SHOCKED... in a grand way. Like, "Wow, I cannot believe I just achieved that."

The mind is a powerful thing... if you set up the 'monitors and controls' properly. Dial them in, baby!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #395, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-10T11:02:00.005-04:00

Here goes blog quote #395...

"When your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt."
-Henry Kaiser-

I believe Kaiser is telling us... less blah,blah,blah, and more show. If your work is that good, you don't need to "hard sell" it to people. They will notice and figure it out on their own. That doesn't mean you can't tell people about it or get it out there for others to see it. You can be certain, if you do exceptional work, the word will eventually get around.

Which brings up another point. Shouldn't we spend less time selling our products and more time on PERFECTING whatever our offering is? Build the best 'whatever', and make sure that it over exceeds expectations on it's intended job. Make it the BEST 'problem solving item' , and you will have more sales than you know what to do with.

Less rah, rah, and more performance. It's what all of us really want, isn't it?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #394, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-09T14:09:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #394...

"Worrying is using your imagination for something you do NOT want."
-anonymous-

There is an interesting way to describe the word worry. Guarantee you won't find that explanation in the Webster's dictionary.

Ponder that one for a moment or two.

That's my brief view...what say you?

Quote #393, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-09T10:00:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #393...

"Do what you can, with what you have, where your at."
-Teddy Roosevelt-

Reminds me of my dad when he used to say "Just do something". It doesn't have to set a world record, or be a new invention, or solve a gigantic problem. The message is just to get in motion. The longest journey starts with a single step.

Another thought is motion begets motion. As simple as this may sound, the hardest thing about finishing a project is... just starting it. Once you get moving on something, it's very easy to keep it going.

Finally I believe Teddy was saying that you don't have to be the best or have the most talent. Just do as best you can with the talents you have. Who can ever have a problem with that?

And usually if you do your best as whatever the task, it's pretty good.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #392, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-07T12:28:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #392...

"A negative attitude is like a flat tire. You can't go anywhere until you change it."
-Wendy Marshall-

Now, being the Grand Poobah of Smiles, and doused in the positive industry, I do my fair share of reading good, quality, uplifting stuff. Here is a quote that I've never, ever stumbled upon, until now.

The dictionary defines the word ANALOGY as follows... "a likeness in one or more ways between things otherwise unlike." Now this quote is a super-duper, Class A rated analogy.

Take some time to absorb it, After that, it looks like one to hang on the refrigerator?

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #391, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-06T13:43:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #391...

"He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals."
-Ben Franklin-

I had to think about that one for a moment. Then BF's message kicked in. He is quite the common sense man.

Franklin notes that a man who is so into himself, will find that its a turn off to others and they will not quite as fond. Therefore he will be without a whole lot of friends, if any. So... be careful of conceit, arrogance and cockiness. In other words, don't be so full of yourself.

Good advice. Thanks Ben

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #390, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-04T17:18:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #390...

"Every day you are stirring the pot of life, and the most important ingredient you can put into your soup, is you."
-Jon Gordon, Author of 'Soup'-

Gordon goes on to say that your love, optimism, trust, vision, communication, authenticity, appreciation and passion make life DELICIOUS. In other words, you have a heck of alot of input to put into this game we call life.

We've all heard the lines 'You only have one live to live', 'Life is short, play hard', 'Go big or go home', 'Your dead a long time', etc etc. In other words, as Chuck Mangione once named a song...GIVE IT ALL YOU GOT. On that song, Mangione blew his lungs as hard as he could.

Anyhow, I've only read 3 pages of this book, and I can already tell its simmering hot and full of flavor. Back to the book. In the meantime, what 'ingredients' are you putting into your soup?

Thats my view... what say you?

Quote #389, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-06-03T11:56:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #389...

"Any role performed at excellence is genuinely respected in our agency."
-Sign in a local State Farm insurance office-

What a motivating sign and display of respect for other co-workers. The great Earl Nightengale once said, "regardless of who you are or your position or title, do whatever you do to the best of your ability." It will stick out like a sore thumb, in a good way.

If your in charge of pencil stocking, make sure all are sharpened and you have a nice variety of high quality pencils. If you clean the bathroom floors, make them the most sparkling darn floors in the county. If your a salesperson, do your absolute best to find out about your customer, ask questions, and see if they have any NEED for whatever your selling. And if your a popular music star, sing to the best of your ability, give your fans a show for their money and act as best you can, something your momma could be proud of.

You get the point. Excellence at anything, will always be a.) noticed and b.) appreciated. Why give it anything less? If your signiture is attached to it, do it and do it well.

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #388, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-31T08:52:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #388...

In a free country there is much clamor, with little suffering. In a despotic state there is little complaint, with much grievance."
-Carnot-

Thanks to all,that have worked so hard for our freedoms. Happy Memorial Day, and peace throughout the world to all people.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #387, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-30T10:08:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #387...

"It has always been my belief that a man should do his best, regardless of how much he receives for his services, or the number of people he may be serving, or the class of people served."
-Dr. Napoleon Hill-

Funny when Hill wrote this, I don't think he had our armed forces in mind. Most likely the business folk.

Looking at this quote though, it applies to our brave military in the largest sense. They certainly are doing their best, given the difficult task, conditions, and orders thay have to follow and work with. You certainly couldn't pay these people enough... for how much is risking your life every day worth? Finally, the people, they are serving is you and I. And it's quite a large number to serve. Can you say an entire population?

So on this Memorial Day weekend, and every day, let us bow our heads and salute our bravest citizens. Without them, who knows where we would be. I'm certain of this:: not as safe and fortunate as we are with them. Thank you to all who have served.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #386, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-24T08:16:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #386...

"When in doubt, make a fool of yourself. There is a microscopically thin line between being brilliantly creative and acting like the most gigantic idiot on the earth. So what the hell, leap."
-Cynthia Heimel-

Sounds to me like the rewards far out weigh the risk here. Chance to be brilliant, versus someone thinking you are a goofball. It's likely that you won't truly look that goofy or idiotic. It's kind of sad when you think of the possibility of someone truly making a difference in peoples lives, by going out on a limb, and how many times it gets snuffed out, do to fear of making a fool of themselves.

I say go for it. Much to gain, and very little to lose. So what if someone laughs at you. It's not the end of the world. But bringing something incredible to the table.. could be life altering!

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #385, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-22T08:20:00.002-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #385...

"A yawn is nature's way of giving the person listening to a bore, an opportunity to open his mouth."
-Bob Phillips-

This mornings quote on BORING people is pretty self explanatory. Quite witty as well.

Got to love those double meaning quotes!

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #384, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-21T08:57:00.003-04:00

Heres goes blog quote #384...

"When you feel dog tired at night, maybe it's because you did a bit too much growling all day long."
-Author unknown-

How about a bit of humor heading into the weekend. Who can't use more of that?

Also, as funny as this quote is, it's something to think about. Sometimes the truth is a bit on the hurtful side, yet we all need an 'about face', kick in the pants, every now and then.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #383, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-18T10:01:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #383...

"Happiness is when what you think,what you say and what you do are in harmony."
-Mahatma Gandhi-

The infamous Gandhi always has such wisdom to share. Are you in harmony or are you on disconnect mode?

Are your thoughts, your words, and your actions all on the same page? Are they matching up, or are they all going in different directions?

Similar to a texas twister storm, disconnect and disarray can lead to a messy outcome. Best to get all three things flowing on the same path. Ahh, and when they are... can you feel the peace? The comfort? The body, mind, and spirit, all in sync.

Sync. Cohesion. Harmony. Three things that are very good for all of us.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #382, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-17T18:27:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #382...

"Trust your hunches. They are usually based on facts, filed just below the conscious level."
-Dr Joyce Brothers-

HMMMM....

I have a feeling that there is some truth to this quote. And it's funny how many times your first impression is correct. Not always, but a strong percentage of the time. The "gut" is no slouch either.

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #381, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-17T16:17:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #381...

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will take care of itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
-Matthew 6:34-

This quote is relevant to anyone. At any age.

How much time do we spend worry about the future? Sadly much of our concern never even materializes down the road... thus wasted energy.

Pay attention to today's tasks at hand. For if we grossly overlook them, soon, tomorrow's problems aren't even a factor, and today's issues must be dealt with. Partly in thanks to the ignorance. Oops!

Thats my view...what say you?

Quote #380, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-16T10:55:00.004-04:00

Here goes blog quote #380...

"The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said."
-Peter Drucker-

Listening. Tough thing to do. Not many of us do it well.

Mr Drucker offers a bit of an oxymoron here. How can we hear what isn't being said? Well he is playing on words a bit.

Focus. Paying attention. Being engaged in conversation. Being present. Observing. Watching for hand movements and body language. Repeating what you thought you heard. Repeating what you thought was implied.

It's all part of being a good listener. Which usually goes hand in hand with a good communicator.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #379, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-14T16:03:00.003-04:00

Here goes blog quote #379...

Days are expensive. When you spend a day, you have one less day to spend. So, make sure you spend each one wisely."
-Jim Rohn-

Did you ever notice people sometimes live life like it goes on forever? Wasted time, no urgency, procrastinating, putting things off 'til another day.

Life is short. Maximize each day. Every moment.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #378, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-12T17:43:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog Quote #378...

"If you were to ask me 14 years ago, can you play in 2000 consecutive games, can you play in every single game for this amount of years, I'd say no way, that's impossible.'
-Cal Ripken Jr-

Impossible. Big word.

It's so big, so difficult, that it's almost impossible to be impossible. Really.

Think of every difficult or huge task. At first blush, we always think it's impossible. Yet when broken down, bit by bit, piece by piece, it becomes managable.

How does David slay Goliath? Little by little, blow by blow. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. How the heck did Cal Ripken Jr ever play in every single game, 2000 plus games, for 14 straight years? One game at a time.

There is a big lesson to be learned in this blog. You know what... it's not impossible to find it.

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #377, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-11T08:23:00.003-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #377...

"I can resist everything, but temptation."
-Oscar Wilde-

As always, got to love the double meaning or the oxymoronic quotes. That temptation can be a tough thing to not succumb to.

Factors usually include will power, drive, motive, and guts. Look at all the people trying to lose weight. How about the numbers who are "quitting smoking." Next how many New Year's resolutions fall by the wayside to temptation?

Heck, per the bible, we wouldn't even be here if Adam and Eve didn't give in to temptation. Nobody said it was easy. Especially Oscar Wilde.

Personally, I believe the mind is THEE most powerful thing in the universe and if you want something bad enough, you stay focused and resist all the detractors. More easily said than done. Most things that are worthwhile don't come easy though, do they?

That's my view...what say you?

Quote #376, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-10T10:04:00.004-04:00

Here goes Blog quote #376...

"Prices subject to change according to customers attitude."
-sign seen in a Pa. restaurant-

More proof that your attitude means everything in life.

Any questions? :)

That's my view... what say you?

Quote #375, My Thoughts and YOUR thoughts

2010-05-09T12:51:00.004-04:00

Heres blog quote #375...

"There is no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one."
-Jill Churchill-

I'm sure there are many good Mothers day quotes, songs and stories floating around today. Each and every one of them is well deserved.

Here's a salute to all MOM's! One of the most difficult,underrated, stressful, yet rewarding and ultra important jobs ever, in the world.

To all MOM's out there. You Rock! A big THANK YOU for ALL you do!

Thats my view...what say you?